"Conscious" Dating
"Conscious" or "Spiritual" Dating is an enlightened way of meeting and dating where the old rules no longer apply. As we evolve to higher and higher states of consciousness it becomes increasingly more necessary to release old programming and beliefs that no longer serve us. As children, we were conditioned and "programmed" by our parents, teachers and society about how to meet someone, how to date and how to be in a relationship. Most of these programs were not healthy and were even detrimental. Once we have released these programs, we can connect with our TRUE ESSENCE and uncover our TRUE desires and passions in regard to dating and relating.
"Conscious dating" or "spiritual dating" involves being:
  • Divinely Connected
  • Present and Open
  • Realistic
  • Real
  • Listening Deeply with an Open Heart
  • Staying in the Diving FLOW
For a more in-depth explanation, please read Jill Crosby's article, "The 6 Keys to Spiritual Dating".
New paradigm relationships:

Once we are truly connected and expressing our true, essential selves, we know what type of relationships we want to consciously create instead of going by rote and doing what we've always done or have always seen others do. For example, some people's true essential selves are more poly-amorous then monogamous. "Poly" meaning "many" or "multiple" partners.

Most "poly" people prefer to have one primary partner that they oftentimes live with, in addition to enjoying intimate and usually sexual experiences and relationships with other people outside of the primary partnership. Others' true essence may be monogamous, and both partners may choose to create something entirely new that suits them both, like living in separate wings of a house, or in separate houses so each has ample space and freedom. And still others may find that they enjoy having a primary partnership with 2 partners.

Just because society condones getting married and living together, doesn't mean that anybody should do that unless they feel its in alignment with their true self.

We encourage our members to be authentic and true to themselves regardless of how unusual or different that may seem.

We also encourage radical honesty and mutual agreements to facilitate loving, heart-centered, supportive, joyful relationships.

Spiritual AND High Tech:

Our goal has always been to provide our dating members with an effective, easy venue/tool to meet their soul mate, twin flame, tantric partner, poly partners and/or new friends. Since launching in the early days of online dating back in 2000, we have continuously upgraded and improved the site to be sure to keep up with the latest technology.